I have to agree with his statement. I know too many of friends that have had this exact situation happen to them. I told my gf right from the beginning that cars, djing and video games are my hobbies and my money pits. Take it or leave it. One year later she is still with me and we are planning on getting married. The other day we were talking about homes and her first comment was "yes I know it has to have a basement and a garage" :biggrin2: One of the flip side I also know she is an avid book reader so if she wants to spend 300 dollars on the latest e-reader I have no say so on how she spends her money.